What it means
IYKYK is a little wink in text form. Short for if you know, you know, you drop it when the real ones will get the joke, the reference, the location, the routine, all of it, with no extra spoon-feeding. It lives in captions, group chats, comments, and anywhere shared context does the heavy lifting.
Usage examples
"We’re meeting at the place with the green door, two pints in by half nine, iykyk."
"Slid the chair under the desk, locked the screen, blink twice on the way out. Iykyk, the rest of you stay productive."
"Got there early so we could grab the back booth before the after-work crowd rolled in, iykyk."
"She posted the blurry takeaway box at 1:12 a.m. and nothing else. IYKYK."
"He only posted a pic of the red plastic cup and the busted patio lights. IYKYK."
Where it comes from
It comes from the full phrase if you know, you know, which was already common in spoken and written English before people clipped it down. The acronym took off online in the late 2010s, especially on Twitter, Instagram, and meme pages, where fast little insider-coded shorthand thrives.