Street voices
Janna
·
United States
"Situationship. This is basically kind of a romantic relationship, but there's no labels. You're not really, you know, in a proper romantic relationship where you can, you know, be labeled as a boyfriend or a girlfriend. It's somewhere in between. Basically confusing for all parties. An example would be, oh my god, this situation with Brian is super confusing. Yesterday he took me out on a beautiful date, we had so much fun, but today he hasn't even texted me."
What it means
A romantic connection that is more than friends but not quite a relationship. No labels, no commitment, maximum emotional confusion. The term exploded in the 2020s as dating culture got increasingly commitment-shy. You do everything a couple does without any of the security or definition. It is cozy until someone catches feelings harder than the other.
Usage examples
"We have been hanging out every weekend for four months but he says we are not dating. Classic situationship and I am tired"
"They've been in a situationship for a year and still won't define it."
"I'm done with situationships, I want something real."
"We're basically in a situationship at this point, doing date night and deep chats but still pretending it's casual."
"She said she doesn't want a boyfriend, but she texts me good morning every day. Babe, that's a situationship with extra seasoning."
Got something to say?
Edit, fix or tell us something. We review it and, if it is true, you will see it applied with your name on it.
Where it comes from
A mashup of situation and relationship, situationship started circulating online in the 2010s and really took off in the 2020s. It names that messy in-between zone where two people act couple-ish but dodge the label, the commitment, or both. Internet dating culture gave the word its full chaotic sparkle.
Editors of this term
Your vote counts
Is this real street talk or have we lost the plot? Cast your vote.
